Empower, Encourage: Nicosia, Cyprus

12/05/2024

While serving in Nicosia, Cyprus, I was appointed by the President of my organization to serve as one of two multi-region leaders overseeing all female missionaries across Greece, Cyprus, and Bulgaria. Shortly after accepting this assignment, the president informed me that the 6 female missionaries in Bulgaria were experiencing severe burnout and low morale due to persistent public rejection and communication barriers. To address this challenge, I was tasked with designing an immersive training initiative. Leveraging South Nicosia's diverse, English-speaking international population, I coordinated all cross-border travel and logistics for the six missionaries, executing a phased mentorship model that transitioned from passive observation to independent execution.

Leading by example on the first day, I initiated low-pressure, engaging conversations in public spaces while the Bulgarian missionaries observed effective and natural dialogue strategies. After watching a few interactions, I invited them to jump in and practice conversations alongside me, giving them a safe space to get comfortable. The following day, we began engaging in conversation again this time splitting them up into smaller groups on busier streets. As they grew more comfortable, I deliberately stepped back and watched with pride as they led conversations on their own with complete ease and fluidity. 

Over the three days, these six missionaries transformed from discouraged and hesitant into bold, capable communicators. When they returned to Bulgaria, they translated that new confidence into the Bulgarian language. My mission president later informed me that those missionaries were thriving and doing exceptionally well. By focusing on encouragement and modeling rather than just giving advice, I helped equip these missionaries with skills and energy they could take back to uplift their own areas.

This experience taught me that transformative leadership is intentional. Plans are formed and executed with the specific needs of those you serve at the very center. By taking the time to understand the Bulgarian missionaries' struggles, coordinating a supportive environment for them, and adapting my mentorship to their pace, I was able to help my peers overcome burnout and build lasting self-reliance.

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